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What are our biggest fears?
1. My biggest fear is finishing college without a successful relationship. I’ve never even been asked out on a date. I’m so afraid that guys see me as damaged goods because I was raped.
2. I’m afraid I’ll never find someone who wants to marry me so I won’t be able to be able to have the kind of family I never had.
3. My happiness will end
4. My biggest fear is looking pathetic in any way–particularly in academics and my social life. I hate feeling like people look down on me and judge me.
5. not being the best in a class.
6. A lot of my friends talk about how they never want to have kids, that they never want to be pregnant, that maybe – just maybe – they might adopt. I, on the other hand, really want a child of my own flesh and blood some day. My biggest fear is that I won’t be able to have kids.
7. I don’t know what I know. I think I’m in love with someone, but it doesn’t feel like it. I’m afraid I’ll hang on until I’ve convinced myself that I am in love, or at least until I’ve changed my idea of what love is.
8. After college I won’t be able to relate to anyone, I’ll be intellectually unfulfilled and therefore begin to question my own “knowledge”. I can’t even have a meaningful conversation with anyone in my family anymore because their worries and opinions seem so trivial and shallow compared to the weight of the world that I am seeking to lift. How can I do that if I feel unable to relate to anyone?
9. I fear that my desire to live is not stable. I feel dependent on things/people that I can’t guarantee will be there forever…and then what?
10. Some days I just want to cry long and hard but I’m afraid someone will actually hear me and ask me what’s wrong.
11. That I will never find a guy who actually wants to have a relationship with me.
12. I’m scared of not living up to my parents’ expectations of me at Georgetown.
13. I’m scared of having sex because I don’t want anyone to see my naked body.
14. I’m afraid that someone I love will kill herself, and I won’t be able to help. I’m afraid that she won’t be saved soon enough.
15. That I’ll never find true love, because I don’t think we’re all entitled to it
16. I’m afraid I’m going to turn into my narcissistic father.. and I won’t be a good doctor because of it.
17. One of my biggest fears is that I will not make a difference or change the world in any long-term way. I am especially worried that people will not see the importance of environmental movements until it is too late… or that it is already too late.
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